I got married a year ago with love of my life. From the wedding day she wasn’t satisfied with anything so I was trying to do more for her every time. Next day we went for outing where she started suggesting me that she doesn’t want to live in family and started pushing me to stay alone with her. When we came back in a week, she created an issue without any reasons and forced me to leave my home.
We went to rented place where she and her family tortured me every other day and started threatening me with a lot of things. She wanted me to keep her parents, sister and brother along with her. I tried to explain that I feel for my family and at-least she should allow me to talk to them. She and her family kept threatening me if I call my family. My sister was pregnant and nobody was there to take care of them at the COVID time but she and her mother threatened me if I talk to them then they’ll file a divorce. I tried to keep my marriage, my sister got a baby and I kept requesting my wife if she could allow me to talk to my family, she used to agree but then she used to confirm with her mother and then deny that again.
I kept requesting her and then finally she allowed me, I talked to my family and they were crying badly then I requested her if I can meet them, same way that request took weeks. Then I met my family, she said she’ll go along and when I requested her that we should stay there for a day or two then she threatened for divorce and pushed me again. Then after few months she allowed and then I along with her went to my home but after few days she again started telling me that either I stay with her alone or she’ll leave me. I tried to explain but she left me in the month of December and went to her family who were staying on a rented place in Mohali (actually belong to Pathankot but staying in Mohali since my wedding).
Then in January, she informed me that she was pregnant, I went to meet her and she said she’ll abort our baby if I don’t leave my family and I had no option. Then again same started, her mother and her started torturing me for all the things. I was emotional about my baby and thought that I should purchase a home so that our baby doesn’t born in a rented place. I told her that I had some savings then she said she want her family to purchase a home first and I had no idea she was asking me to give my savings to them. So again I was forced to give them 6 lakh rupees. I thought I’ll apply for a loan but will surely purchase a home and told her that I’m left with 2 lakh rupees so will have to opt for a loan. As soon as she came to know that I had 2 lakh of savings she started forcing me that she want her brother to purchase a car and he has 2 lakh less. Her mother said that they’ll return my 6 lakh and 2 lakh as soon as they get it from their other relatives whom the lended the amount earlier. So finally I requested 5 lakh from my office as advance and applied for the loan and purchased a home. It’s a big house with 3 rooms so I requested her if I can bring my parents with us. Guess what she said, she said don’t bring them here and sell your home where they’ll leave and they should manage. She basically want my parents on the road and I have no idea why. In my 1 years of marriage, she barely stayed few days with my family. She doesn’t miss calling her family any day but if I give my parents a call then she start all the chaos and creates BIG mess and tortures me.
I had some other saving which I shared with her and guess what she started, her mother started asking for more money as they need to do some update to their existing home. 2 days back she left for her mother stating that she need a divorce from me because I’m not helping them. I already helped them a lot, I’m paying installments of approximately 90000 per month which is a huge burden on me to continue my work and I’m not able to risk my job. Now her mother threatened me that she’ll call her brothers, relatives and will ruin me. They are threatening me that they’ll destroy my career, my home and keep my to be born baby away from me because I didn’t help them. I’m already under a huge debt so I’m just looking forward to settle my debts every single day but her mother just trying to torture me everyday with something new. They are torturing my to be born baby already, I request her to go for blood test, she denied but Doctor want it for the health of the baby.
I haven’t eat anything for past few days and I may die soon but please save my to be born from these people. These may be my last days but somebody please save my to be born from these people.
I have been mentally tortured and destroyed by them. My life has been ruined. They just threaten me and say nobody listen to males in this world and they’ll destroy me but I’m feeling like already destroyed, I don’t know how much long I’ll live but please save me from them if someone can.