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My name is Sahil i am 27 years old bachelor. I live in an apartment of 25 flats. A woman in my neighborhood named Vidya who is appropriately 38 years old continuously spreads false rumors about me and tries to put me down. I used to talk her calling didi, but as soon as i got busy she felt as if i am ignoring her so she got angry and wants to put me down as i am a middle class guy.
She tries to belittle me every time as soon as she passes by she gives a smirk on her face. Or intentionally tries to tackle me i get out of her way otherwise she is very wise to accuse of teasing a lady.
And in return she is spreading rumors in reverse that i am not a good guy. At first people didn’t believe her but as soon as the time is passing by i have noticed that people who have seen me from 10 years have changed their attitude towards me. As if i have changed into a bad person. Every one in my apartment has stopped talking to me. Everyone knows about me and doesn’t disapprove of my purity but they are just taking this to their advantage to put me down. Eventually everytime i have to initiate the conversation otherwise they act pricey.
Other ladies of the apartment too are acting like her who i call them kaku and aunty, are ignoring me. This helped Vidya tai to her advantage now as she passes by she tries to be intimidating, as she passes by she shouts loudly to talk to a distant person. And has formed up a gang of 7-8 ladies. As soon i try to park my vehicle another lady came and parked her vehicle at my place infront of me and went away ignoring me. They first provoke and then ignore me.
Some of my advocate friends have adviced me to ignore everyone and the situation will automatically become normal. But the case is becoming even more complicated day by day. They are provoking me by using woman card. Also spread false accusations about me that due my age and as i am unmarried i am into ladies. I swear to god i have not done a single mistake. They are playing psychological games with me and trying to intimidate. As this cannot be explained infront of police or lawyer, none are able to help me.
The brother of Vidya tai is a police officer who knows interrogation and psychological techniques to convert any normal person into a victim mindset by continuously hammering him psychologically.
So i cannot try to talk or say sorry to her she has already spread false rumors about me. But she continuously damaging my reputation in my society as i am living here since last 10 years. My reputation is totally damaged. No one respects me now.
Everytime she encounters she keeps on provoking and belittle me put me down as a man i am very fed up of her. I too deserve to be treated with respect. Last week her husband was staring at me very angrily so i ignored him and went away. I don’t know what rumors are being spread and i am unable to control them.
Yesterday she came to my house i got very scared so my mom opened up the door then she talked to my mom for 2-3 casually and went away. Again when i was going out of my flat and banged the door she yelled as if she is scolding her daughter and asked her to close the door gently. I am really intimidated by her. She is doing gang bullying, character assassination and damaging my reputation.
Please help me respected lawyers, as your single advice can help me. It has affected me very badly that i taking sleeping pills. Please i really need any kind of help.
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We suggest that you visit a counsellor to calm your mind. if she is doing things to belittle you, what is she going to gain? were you in a physical relation with her?
It should not matter as to what other ladies (being influenced by her) are doing. If you have self respect, you will ignore the bullies and live your life on your own terms and not on their terms.