M married for 12 years with 3 kids,was having an affair b4 marriage & later got married to one who is wife now,i narrated all the story to her before i got married & asked for time to forget my ex,but she didnt supported me & instead keep on poking me,shouted me for thinking about ex after marriage,i said m getting rid of her memories and not thinking about her at all,but she didnt supported me or trusted me with what i was going through at that time.was not happy at all,but after that i asked for time to have a baby but due to parents pressure,i had a baby without love for her,then life continued but we never settled with each other and only for baby,i was adjusting life and after 4 years,due to small issue,she created a big problem & that time,i was totally frustated with her attitude & behaviour & asked for divorce from my parents help,but parents refused & said life goes on like this only & u ve to adjust with these things,if it was minor issue,i wouldn’t have any problem dealing with it,but i just punched in her arms(biceps)one fine night while laughing at a joke due to out of control ,and she started crying like a baby and said to her mom,that i am beating her and her mom started shouting me w/o knowing what really happened and i got tense.Thats the time i asked for divorce,then i warned my parents that if it continues like this in future anytime,i wouldn’t listen to any of u and i will stand for divorce again and i wont adjust at all that time.so i gave her another chance & later my mom said u r having only one child that is girl too,after she gets married one day,who would look after you,make a baby again,my mom said and i was like am happy with my one baby coz i couldnt tolerate wife behaviour already,but she promised me that after having a baby again,i wont disturb u & won’t ask to look for/care for when u r not free & i got tricked in her words and said ok & we went for IVF and made 2 kids,but as a father responsibilities,i cared for all my kids & made them bath,dressed them,took care of them,but wife never appreciated for it,instead kept on poking me,what u ve done for kids so far and all,i was like hopeless and broken,she started comparing me with my brothers,insulted me in shop saying what the fuck u r doing in shop if u cant give us money?me never said NO for money,i got them everything she or kids needed.Started asking me whats ur relation with my brother wife coz i talk with smile to them & not with wife,In a family of five,i have more than 20 policies between us monthly,quarterly and yearly,and even after that,i pay her expenses and all.but she never appreciated for what i did.she said if u can’t take care of kids,y did u gave them birth?she is a big liar and always changes her words,so i decided to end this relation now and fighting with parents to get me divorce,but they still asking me to adjust,i said i wont.now she saying i never shared my past relation abt ex to her b4 marriage and i made her life hell she saying this.I even accept that i went to social sites and chatted with other girls to talk abt my sorrows and all and made friends too coz my family and she never cared about my feelings and i was feeling very alone and due to this,i took help of social sites and communicated with other girls who were feeling same and i said all this things to her and family too,now my fighting against my parents and her to give me a divorce but they r refusing to,and my dad saying if u want to stay in this house,u ve to follow my words and do what i say,i got irritated and broke many things in home and all due to their behavoiur and said dad,u cant ctrl my life according to ur needs and coz of kids,i cant spoil my life too..if its goes like this,both of our life gonna spoil and kids gonna suffer too,so better make us seperate now and later she wil know that i really dont love her and bother for her and she will understand this one day and move on with her life and get married to someone else..now my dad threating me that if she want to go out from home,u too ve to get out..i said am ok with it..now thing is she never accepted her mistakes and still saying i didnt did anything like that or spoke or compared me with brother or made a statement with my brother wife..nobody is beleving my words and all are supporting her even though they know she is faulty..Am depressed with this and i hurted myself more and more and now they understand my feelings and saying ok we will deal with it..Am adamant now that i want to get divorce from her and told my family too and i said abt this to her family too and made them understand that i wont look for her now and i dont accept her as wife anymore and i dont care abt it too..better take her away and dont blame me in future if her life gets spoil,and she is like do whatever you want ,i wont give u divorce nor i will go anyway..In 12 years ,we hardly had nearly 50 times physical relationship and i never felt anything for her coz of her attitude and behaviour and now i said too to her that from my side,its completely over.i cant live with you anymore,you are nothing to me now..